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<\/p>\nI thought of Dana in the gray cardigan, holding a paper cup like it was the last warm thing on earth. \u201cShe\u2019s very nice,\u201d I said. \u201cShe teaches music.\u201d \u201cCan she teach me the violin?\u201d I laughed, and the laugh turned into tears, and Hazel climbed into my lap and patted my cheek with sticky fingers. \u201cDon\u2019t cry, Mama. It\u2019s just a liver.\u201d The surgery took eleven hours.<\/p>\n
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Owen was not allowed to operate on his own daughter, and he did not try. He sat beside me in the surgical waiting room with a paper cup of coffee going cold between his hands. Walt Kowalski sat across from us in a UPS jacket, big and silent, rubbing his knee. Around hour six, he looked up and said, \u201cI\u2019m not great at this.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cNeither are we,\u201d I said. \u201cI keep thinking, what if I\u2019d noticed? Eight years, and I never thought, \u2018This kid doesn\u2019t look like us.\u2019 She looked like Dana. She looked like me when I squinted.\u201d His voice cracked. \u201cShe\u2019s my girl. I don\u2019t care what a test says.\u201d \u201cI know,\u201d I said. \u201cHazel\u2019s mine for the same reason.\u201d He nodded and wiped his face with a rough palm. Then Walt did something I wasn\u2019t expecting. He took a photograph from his wallet and passed it across the gap between our chairs.<\/p>\n
It was Ruby, in a school photo with her hair in two uneven pigtails, her smile slightly crooked.<\/p>\n
\u201cShe\u2019s been asking questions,\u201d he said. \u201cDana and I told her last week. A little, anyway. That there\u2019s another family. Another girl who needs help.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cHow did she take it?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cShe asked if she could send a card.\u201d He almost smiled. \u201cShe\u2019s making one now. It has a lot of glitter.\u201d<\/p>\n
I held the photograph for a long time.<\/p>\n
At hour eleven, the surgeon came through the double doors with her mask pulled down and a tired smile.<\/p>\n
\u201cBoth are doing well,\u201d she said. \u201cThe graft took beautifully. Hazel\u2019s going to be sore, and she\u2019ll need a long recovery, but she\u2019s going to be fine.\u201d<\/p>\n
Owen made a sound I had never heard from a person, a low, cracked exhale, like a man who has been holding his breath for three months. Walt put his face in his hands. I held on to both of their sleeves, and the three of us sat there while the whole waiting room went blurry.<\/p>\n
FINAL PART<\/strong><\/p>\n Recovery was slow and messy and full of small victories.<\/p>\n Hazel spent nineteen days in the hospital. Her color came back first, the sallowness I\u2019d mistaken for winter pallor melting into a healthy pink. Then her appetite returned. Then her questions.<\/p>\n \u201cIs Dana going to be okay?\u201d she asked one afternoon, propped up on pillows with a stuffed owl under her arm.<\/p>\n \u201cShe\u2019s going to be fine. She\u2019s recovering two floors down.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cCan I see her?\u201d<\/p>\n I hesitated. \u201cDo you want to?\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cShe gave me part of herself,\u201d Hazel said, in the matter-of-fact way only an eight-year-old can say something that profound. \u201cI\u2019d like to say thank you.\u201d<\/p>\n We rolled her down in a wheelchair, with the owl in her lap and a drawing she\u2019d made on a hospital napkin. Dana was sitting up in bed with a paperback, her face thin and pale. When she saw Hazel, she set the book down very carefully.<\/p>\n \u201cHi,\u201d Hazel said. \u201cI\u2019m Hazel. You have my liver. Part of it.\u201d<\/p>\n Dana laughed so hard she had to clutch her stomach, wincing.<\/p>\n \u201cI do,\u201d she said. \u201cIt\u2019s a good one. I\u2019ve had it for thirty-nine years. I took care of it.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cThank you.\u201d Hazel held out the napkin. \u201cI drew you a violin.\u201d<\/p>\n It was a lopsided violin with a very large bow. Dana held it as if it were made of glass.<\/p>\n \u201cIt\u2019s perfect,\u201d she said. \u201cI\u2019ll keep it forever.\u201d<\/p>\n I stood in the doorway beside Owen, and neither of us said anything for a long time.<\/p>\n The glitter card arrived the following week.<\/p>\n It came in a lumpy red envelope, addressed in careful, wobbly letters:\u00a0To Hazel, from Ruby.<\/em>\u00a0Inside was a construction paper heart covered in so much glitter that it shed all over the bed. Beneath it, in purple marker:<\/p>\n Hi. I\u2019m Ruby. I like drawing and swimming and mac and cheese. Do you have a dog? I want one. Mom says maybe. I hope you feel better. I think we are kind of like sisters but weird. Write back!<\/em><\/p>\n Hazel read it three times. Then she looked up at me.<\/p>\n \u201cShe spelled \u2018weird\u2019 right.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cShe did.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cCan I meet her?\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cYes,\u201d I said. \u201cWhen you\u2019re better. Slowly.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cSlowly,\u201d Hazel agreed gravely. \u201cLike with a new fish.\u201d<\/p>\n We met on a Sunday in April, in the grassy field behind a park in Mt. Lebanon.<\/p>\n I stood at the edge with my arms wrapped around myself, in a spring jacket that was not warm enough. Owen stood beside me. The Kowalskis arrived five minutes early. Walt carried a soccer ball. Dana, thin but upright, held the hand of a small girl with my mother\u2019s chin and my father\u2019s eyebrows.<\/p>\n I had known her face from a photograph. It was nothing like seeing her walk.<\/p>\n Ruby let go of Dana\u2019s hand and stopped three feet from me.<\/p>\n \u201cHi,\u201d she said. \u201cAre you Maren?\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cI am.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cI\u2019m Ruby.\u201d She studied me with frank, solemn interest. \u201cYou look kind of like me.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cI think it might be the other way around.\u201d<\/p>\n She grinned, and I saw the same crooked tooth I\u2019d once drawn on my own face in a mirror at that age.<\/p>\n Then Hazel, who had been hiding behind Owen\u2019s legs, edged out.<\/p>\n The two girls looked at each other.<\/p>\n \u201cYou have a bandage,\u201d Ruby said, pointing at the small dressing still visible under Hazel\u2019s shirt.<\/p>\n \u201cI have a scar,\u201d Hazel said. \u201cIt\u2019s going to be a really good one.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cCan I see it when it\u2019s done?\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cMaybe.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cDo you like mac and cheese?\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cObviously.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cDo you want to play soccer?\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cI\u2019m not allowed to run yet.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cOkay,\u201d Ruby said. \u201cWe\u2019ll walk the ball.\u201d<\/p>\n And just like that, they were off, two small girls dribbling a soccer ball at the pace of a very slow parade, arguing about the rules.<\/p>\n I stood there with my hand pressed against my mouth.<\/p>\n Dana came to stand beside me. We watched them in silence for a while.<\/p>\n \u201cDo you ever think about it?\u201d she asked finally. \u201cAll the years we missed?\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cEvery day,\u201d I said. \u201cI used to think I\u2019d fall apart if I let myself.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cAnd now?\u201d<\/p>\n I looked at Hazel, kicking the ball in a slow, wobbly arc toward Ruby. Then at Ruby, laughing in a way I recognized from the back of my own throat.<\/p>\n \u201cNow I think we didn\u2019t miss them,\u201d I said. \u201cWe just got to love them in two different places. And now we get to do it in one.\u201d<\/p>\n Dana slipped her hand into mine.<\/p>\n \u201cThat\u2019s a good way to say it,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n Owen and I went to counseling that summer.<\/p>\n It wasn\u2019t dramatic. Mostly it was a small office with a beige couch and a woman who asked uncomfortable questions in a very kind voice. We learned how to say\u00a0I\u2019m scared<\/em>\u00a0instead of\u00a0I\u2019m fine<\/em>. We learned how to disagree without disappearing. Owen learned, painfully, that protecting me was not the same as including me. I learned that my silence, all those times I swallowed my complaints, had not been generosity. It had been another kind of hiding.<\/p>\n \u201cYou made it easy for me to leave you out,\u201d Owen said one afternoon. \u201cYou were so patient. I mistook it for permission.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cAnd I mistook my patience for love,\u201d I said. \u201cIt was partly fear.\u201d<\/p>\n We looked at each other for a long moment.<\/p>\n \u201cI\u2019d like to try again,\u201d he said. \u201cProperly.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cMe too.\u201d<\/p>\n He took my hand. This time, I let him.<\/p>\n On the first anniversary of the day I walked into St. Brendan\u2019s with a lunch bag, I made Owen lunch again.<\/p>\n Turkey sandwich, a slice of apple pie, and a note beneath the fork.<\/p>\n I drove to the hospital in the early afternoon and walked through the sliding doors, past the nurses\u2019 station where every smile was real. Gideon waved from across the hall, a little teary even now.<\/p>\n Owen was in the doctors\u2019 lounge. He looked up from a stack of charts and saw me in the doorway. His face did the thing it used to do before the secrets, a slow loosening, a tired man remembering how to be glad.<\/p>\n \u201cMaren,\u201d he said. \u201cWhat are you doing here?\u201d<\/p>\n I held up the bag.<\/p>\n \u201cSurprise,\u201d I said.<\/p>\n He read the note, and I watched his mouth wobble the way it always did.<\/p>\n You don\u2019t have to take care of everyone. But let us take care of you.<\/em><\/p>\n \u201cTwenty minutes?\u201d I asked.<\/p>\n \u201cTake as long as you want,\u201d he said. \u201cI\u2019m all yours.\u201d<\/p>\n We ate together at a small table by the window, with the Pittsburgh skyline spread out gray and gold beyond the glass. My phone buzzed twice during lunch. The first was a photograph from my mother: Hazel and Ruby on the back porch, sticky-faced, sharing a popsicle and a very large dog that belonged to neither of them. The second was a message from Dana.<\/p>\n Girls want to know if they can have a sleepover. I said ask your mothers. Both of them. Together.<\/em><\/p>\n I showed it to Owen. He laughed until his eyes were wet.<\/p>\n \u201cBoth mothers,\u201d he said.<\/p>\n \u201cBoth mothers,\u201d I agreed.<\/p>\n I finished the last bite of pie, and I thought about the strange, crooked road that had brought us here, a blizzard and a swapped bracelet, a liver and a glitter card and a field behind a park. I thought of everything we had nearly lost, and everything we\u2019d been given back in a shape none of us had expected.<\/p>\n My family was not the family I thought I had.<\/p>\n It was bigger. 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