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<\/p>\nA week later, I called Carol. She answered with that same familiar, gravelly voice. \u201cWell, honey. Did you find what you were looking for?\u201d \u201cI did.\u201d I hesitated. \u201cAnd I\u2019m sorry I hung up on you.\u201d She laughed softly. \u201cDon\u2019t worry about that. I\u2019d probably have done the same.\u201d We talked about Mark. About the wedding. About the arrangements she\u2019d made.<\/p>\n
<\/p>\n
And about how frightening the previous few days had been. When I mentioned that Mark had driven north toward Loon Lake during his moment of confusion, she grew quiet. \u201cToward here?\u201d she asked. \u201cYes.\u201d She sighed. \u201cWell, maybe some part of him was trying to find his favorite place.\u201d I looked out the window. Perhaps she was right.<\/p>\n
In early September, Sophie took me dress shopping. I insisted I didn\u2019t need anything elaborate. I was fifty-one. I\u2019d already worn a wedding dress once. But Sophie refused to let me settle for something ordinary. \u201cMom, Dad wants this day to be special.\u201d \u201cHe thinks khakis count as formal clothing.\u201d \u201cExactly. That\u2019s why he\u2019s letting me choose.\u201d At the third boutique, we found it.<\/p>\n
A pale-blue dress.<\/p>\n
Simple.<\/p>\n
Soft.<\/p>\n
With short sleeves and a skirt that moved gently when I walked.<\/p>\n
It reminded me of the lake on a clear morning.<\/p>\n
When I stepped out of the dressing room, Sophie covered her mouth.<\/p>\n
\u201cOh, Mom.\u201d<\/p>\n
I looked in the mirror.<\/p>\n
I didn\u2019t look twenty-five.<\/p>\n
I looked like a woman who\u2019d lived.<\/p>\n
A woman who\u2019d raised a daughter, weathered difficult years, laughed, worried, worked, and loved one man for more than half her life.<\/p>\n
I looked like myself.<\/p>\n
And that felt right.<\/p>\n
\u201cHe\u2019s going to cry,\u201d Sophie whispered.<\/p>\n
\u201cHe cries at dog food commercials.\u201d<\/p>\n
She laughed.<\/p>\n
\u201cMom, that\u2019s you.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cOh.\u201d<\/p>\n
We both began laughing.<\/p>\n
Then crying.<\/p>\n
The saleswoman quietly brought us tissues.<\/p>\n
\u2014<\/p>\n
Mark continued working on his vows.<\/p>\n
He\u2019d originally written nine drafts.<\/p>\n
Then eleven.<\/p>\n
Then even more.<\/p>\n
One evening, I asked why he kept changing them.<\/p>\n
He looked at me.<\/p>\n
\u201cSometimes I read what I wrote, and I can\u2019t remember writing it.\u201d<\/p>\n
My chest tightened.<\/p>\n
\u201cBut then I read it again, and I think, whoever wrote this must really love his wife.\u201d<\/p>\n
He gave a sad smile.<\/p>\n
\u201cAnd then I remember that man is me.\u201d<\/p>\n
I took his hand.<\/p>\n
He continued.<\/p>\n
\u201cSo I keep adding things. Every time I remember something important, I write it down.\u201d<\/p>\n
He glanced toward the papers on the bedside table.<\/p>\n
\u201cI want it all there. While I still can.\u201d<\/p>\n
I kissed him.<\/p>\n
And didn\u2019t ask to read another word.<\/p>\n
\u2014<\/p>\n
The new ring was ready September fourteenth.<\/p>\n
Dave drove Mark to Birch Falls to collect it.<\/p>\n
Mark wouldn\u2019t let me see it.<\/p>\n
\u201cWedding tradition,\u201d he declared.<\/p>\n
\u201cI\u2019m fairly sure the tradition is about the dress.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cI\u2019m creating a new one.\u201d<\/p>\n
That evening, I found him sitting on our bed.<\/p>\n
He was holding the little wooden box with the carved pine tree.<\/p>\n
Inside lay his original wedding ring.<\/p>\n
The one the doctors had cut off twelve years earlier.<\/p>\n
He turned it slowly in his fingers.<\/p>\n
\u201cDo you remember what your dad said at our wedding?\u201d<\/p>\n
I sat beside him.<\/p>\n
\u201cHe gave about twenty minutes of advice. Which part?\u201d<\/p>\n
Mark smiled.<\/p>\n
\u201cThe part about the ring.\u201d<\/p>\n
I thought for a moment.<\/p>\n
He continued.<\/p>\n
\u201cYour father said a wedding ring is a circle. No beginning. No ending.\u201d<\/p>\n
He looked at the scratched gold band.<\/p>\n
\u201cHe said love is supposed to be like that.\u201d<\/p>\n
My throat tightened.<\/p>\n
\u201cI\u2019d forgotten.\u201d<\/p>\n
Mark smiled sadly.<\/p>\n
\u201cFunny, isn\u2019t it? I can\u2019t remember what I ate for lunch yesterday. But I remember that.\u201d<\/p>\n
He closed the box.<\/p>\n
\u201cSomeday, I want Sophie to have this ring.\u201d<\/p>\n
I nodded.<\/p>\n
\u201cShe would love that.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cI wrote it down.\u201d<\/p>\n
He pointed toward the whiteboard in our bedroom.<\/p>\n
Among the medication reminders and telephone numbers was a fresh note.<\/p>\n
**Old ring \u2192 Sophie. Someday.**<\/p>\n
I stared at the words.<\/p>\n
Then looked back at him.<\/p>\n
He smiled.<\/p>\n
\u201cJust in case.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u2014<\/p>\n
September twentieth arrived.<\/p>\n
We drove to Loon Lake the afternoon before.<\/p>\n
Sophie drove.<\/p>\n
I sat in the passenger seat.<\/p>\n
Mark occupied the back seat with the cooler, complaining that he was perfectly capable of driving.<\/p>\n
\u201cI only got lost once.\u201d<\/p>\n
Sophie glanced at him in the mirror.<\/p>\n
\u201cOnce was enough, Dad.\u201d<\/p>\n
He sighed dramatically.<\/p>\n
\u201cBoth of you have become terribly bossy.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cThat\u2019s because we love you,\u201d I answered.<\/p>\n
He leaned forward and kissed my cheek.<\/p>\n
\u201cI know.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u2014<\/p>\n
The Lakeview Inn looked almost exactly as I remembered it.<\/p>\n
The old white building.<\/p>\n
The wraparound porch.<\/p>\n
The rocking chairs.<\/p>\n
The lake stretching beyond the windows.<\/p>\n
When Mark gave his name at reception, the young woman behind the desk smiled warmly.<\/p>\n
\u201cMr. Ellison. We\u2019ve been expecting you.\u201d<\/p>\n
She handed him a key.<\/p>\n
\u201cRoom 12 is ready.\u201d<\/p>\n
He looked down at it.<\/p>\n
\u201cRoom 12,\u201d he repeated quietly.<\/p>\n
We walked upstairs together.<\/p>\n
When he opened the door, I nearly cried.<\/p>\n
The wallpaper had changed.<\/p>\n
The television was newer.<\/p>\n
But the old brass bed remained.<\/p>\n
And the large window still overlooked the lake.<\/p>\n
I walked toward it.<\/p>\n
Mark came up behind me and wrapped his arms around my waist.<\/p>\n
Exactly as he had on our honeymoon.<\/p>\n
\u201cHi, Lee,\u201d he whispered.<\/p>\n
\u201cHi.\u201d<\/p>\n
He rested his chin on my shoulder.<\/p>\n
\u201cI remember this room.\u201d<\/p>\n
I closed my eyes.<\/p>\n
He continued.<\/p>\n
\u201cI remember everything about this place.\u201d<\/p>\n
I covered his hands with mine.<\/p>\n
And silently wished that he could hold on to those memories for as long as possible.<\/p>\n
\u2014<\/p>\n
The following afternoon, we walked down to the Gull\u2019s Nest.<\/p>\n
Carol waited near the deck stairs.<\/p>\n
She was a sturdy older woman with short gray hair and an anchor tattoo on her forearm.<\/p>\n
She wore a black dress and looked uncomfortable in it.<\/p>\n
But when she saw me, her expression softened.<\/p>\n
She opened her arms.<\/p>\n
I walked straight into them.<\/p>\n
\u201cThere she is,\u201d she whispered. \u201cThe wife.\u201d<\/p>\n
I laughed through my tears.<\/p>\n
\u201cI\u2019m still sorry about that phone call.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cOh, hush.\u201d<\/p>\n
She stepped back to admire my dress.<\/p>\n
\u201cGood heavens, honey. He\u2019s going to cry the moment he sees you.\u201d<\/p>\n
Then she led me onto the deck.<\/p>\n
White daisies were everywhere.<\/p>\n
They filled glass jars.<\/p>\n
Decorated the railings.<\/p>\n
And surrounded the little wooden aisle between the chairs.<\/p>\n
Soft lights hung overhead.<\/p>\n
Beyond the deck stretched the old dock.<\/p>\n
The same dock where Mark had told me twenty-seven years earlier that he intended to marry me.<\/p>\n
Our family and closest friends were waiting.<\/p>\n
Dave.<\/p>\n
Tommy.<\/p>\n
Ray.<\/p>\n
My sister and her husband.<\/p>\n
Several longtime family friends.<\/p>\n
Pastor Jim, who\u2019d married us the first time.<\/p>\n
And Sophie, standing in a yellow dress with tears already running down her cheeks.<\/p>\n
At the end of the aisle stood Mark.<\/p>\n
He wore a dark gray suit.<\/p>\n
His hair was neatly combed.<\/p>\n
His hands were clasped nervously in front of him.<\/p>\n
When he saw me, his entire face changed.<\/p>\n
He looked at me the way he\u2019d looked at me on our wedding day.<\/p>\n
As though I were the only person in the world.<\/p>\n
He started crying before I took my first step.<\/p>\n
Then the music began.<\/p>\n
\u201cAt Last.\u201d<\/p>\n
Just like our original wedding.<\/p>\n
Sophie took my arm.<\/p>\n
\u201cReady, Mom?\u201d<\/p>\n
I laughed nervously.<\/p>\n
\u201cNot even a little.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cMe neither.\u201d<\/p>\n
We walked together toward the water.<\/p>\n
At the end of the aisle, she placed my hand in Mark\u2019s.<\/p>\n
He held it tightly.<\/p>\n
\u201cHi, Lee.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cHi.\u201d<\/p>\n
He stared at my dress.<\/p>\n
\u201cYou look\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n
His voice failed.<\/p>\n
I smiled.<\/p>\n
\u201cSophie chose it.\u201d<\/p>\n
He laughed softly.<\/p>\n
\u201cRemind me to thank her.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cI will.\u201d<\/p>\n
And we both understood the deeper meaning of those words.<\/p>\n
\u2014<\/p>\n
Pastor Jim spoke for a few minutes.<\/p>\n
Then he turned toward Mark.<\/p>\n
\u201cI understand you\u2019ve written something you\u2019d like to say.\u201d<\/p>\n
Mark reached into his jacket and removed several folded pages.<\/p>\n
They were covered with his familiar handwriting.<\/p>\n
His hands shook as he unfolded them.<\/p>\n
He studied the words.<\/p>\n
Then looked at me.<\/p>\n
Slowly, he folded the pages again.<\/p>\n
And placed them back in his pocket.<\/p>\n
\u201cI wrote everything down,\u201d he began.<\/p>\n
\u201cBecause I was afraid I\u2019d forget.\u201d<\/p>\n
His voice trembled.<\/p>\n
\u201cBut standing here looking at you, I think I can say what matters.\u201d<\/p>\n
He took my hands.<\/p>\n
\u201cTwenty-six years ago, I told a girl I\u2019d known for eight days that I was going to marry her.\u201d<\/p>\n
Several guests laughed.<\/p>\n
\u201cShe told me I was crazy.\u201d<\/p>\n
He smiled.<\/p>\n
\u201cShe was right. I was crazy about her.\u201d<\/p>\n
He looked into my eyes.<\/p>\n
\u201cAnd I still am.\u201d<\/p>\n
Then his expression grew serious.<\/p>\n
\u201cLee, my doctors have told me there may come a day when I don\u2019t remember this lake.\u201d<\/p>\n
His voice cracked.<\/p>\n
\u201cOr this dock.\u201d<\/p>\n
He looked briefly toward Sophie.<\/p>\n
\u201cMaybe even our daughter\u2019s name.\u201d<\/p>\n
I felt tears sliding down my cheeks.<\/p>\n
\u201cAnd someday, I might forget your name.\u201d<\/p>\n
He swallowed.<\/p>\n
\u201cSo I can\u2019t promise you that I\u2019ll always remember.\u201d<\/p>\n
He drew a shaking breath.<\/p>\n
\u201cBut I can promise you something else.\u201d<\/p>\n
He reached into his pocket and removed a small velvet box.<\/p>\n
Inside were two wedding bands.<\/p>\n
One was delicate gold with a narrow silver stripe.<\/p>\n
The other was wider, with the same design and a tiny hinge.<\/p>\n
He lifted the smaller ring.<\/p>\n
\u201cThis one\u2019s yours.\u201d<\/p>\n
He placed it in my palm.<\/p>\n
\u201cRead the inscription.\u201d<\/p>\n
I tilted it toward the afternoon light.<\/p>\n
Inside, in tiny engraved letters, were the words:<\/p>\n
**EVEN IF I FORGET \u2014 I CHOSE YOU.**<\/p>\n
I covered my mouth.<\/p>\n
Mark gently slipped the ring onto my finger beside my original wedding band.<\/p>\n
Then he lifted the wider ring.<\/p>\n
\u201cMine says something a little different.\u201d<\/p>\n
He turned it so I could see.<\/p>\n
**EVEN IF I FORGET \u2014 SHE CHOSE ME.**<\/p>\n
His voice trembled.<\/p>\n
\u201cIf I ever look down at this ring and can\u2019t remember why I\u2019m wearing it, maybe those words will remind me that someone loved me enough to stay.\u201d<\/p>\n
He held the ring toward me.<\/p>\n
\u201cWill you put it on, Lee?\u201d<\/p>\n
I opened the tiny hinge.<\/p>\n
Carefully placed the ring around his crooked knuckle.<\/p>\n
Then closed it.<\/p>\n
A soft click.<\/p>\n
The ring rested exactly where the pale stripe had been.<\/p>\n
I looked up.<\/p>\n
\u201cDoes it hurt?\u201d<\/p>\n
Mark studied his hand.<\/p>\n
Then smiled through his tears.<\/p>\n
\u201cNo.\u201d<\/p>\n
He held it toward the light.<\/p>\n
\u201cFor the first time in twelve years, it doesn\u2019t hurt at all.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u2014<\/p>\n
I hadn\u2019t written any vows.<\/p>\n
I\u2019d had no idea what I would say.<\/p>\n
But when Pastor Jim looked toward me, the words came.<\/p>\n
\u201cWhen you forget,\u201d I whispered, \u201cI\u2019ll remember for both of us.\u201d<\/p>\n
Mark\u2019s eyes filled.<\/p>\n
\u201cIf you forget my name, I\u2019ll tell you.\u201d<\/p>\n
I squeezed his hands.<\/p>\n
\u201cIf you forget where we live, I\u2019ll remind you.\u201d<\/p>\n
My voice shook.<\/p>\n
\u201cAnd if you ever wonder why you\u2019re wearing that ring, I\u2019ll tell you our story.\u201d<\/p>\n
He began crying.<\/p>\n
\u201cI\u2019ll tell you about the hardware store and your terrible drawing.\u201d<\/p>\n
A few people laughed softly.<\/p>\n
\u201cI\u2019ll tell you about our first pizza date. The lake. The dock. Room 12.\u201d<\/p>\n
I smiled through my tears.<\/p>\n
\u201cI\u2019ll tell you how you asked me to marry you after only eight days.\u201d<\/p>\n
I took a breath.<\/p>\n
\u201cYou chose me once, Mark.\u201d<\/p>\n
I held his hands more tightly.<\/p>\n
\u201cAnd I\u2019m choosing you again. Right here. Knowing everything we may face.\u201d<\/p>\n
His face crumpled.<\/p>\n
\u201cI\u2019m frightened,\u201d I admitted. \u201cOf course I am.\u201d<\/p>\n
I looked into his eyes.<\/p>\n
\u201cBut I\u2019m not leaving.\u201d<\/p>\n
He pulled me into his arms.<\/p>\n
For a moment, we simply held each other.<\/p>\n
Then Pastor Jim wiped his own eyes.<\/p>\n
\u201cWell,\u201d he said, his voice trembling, \u201cI believe this is where you kiss the bride again.\u201d<\/p>\n
Mark kissed me.<\/p>\n
Behind us, the sun sank toward Loon Lake.<\/p>\n
The water glowed orange and purple beneath the pines.<\/p>\n
Exactly as it had when we were young.<\/p>\n
And for that moment, everything felt whole.<\/p>\n
\u2014<\/p>\n
## Part 5: The Promise I Keep<\/p>\n
That wedding was four years ago.<\/p>\n
I\u2019m writing this because Sophie asked me to.<\/p>\n
She says someday she may need help remembering the details too.<\/p>\n
She\u2019s right.<\/p>\n
None of us is getting younger.<\/p>\n
And memories are more fragile than I ever understood.<\/p>\n
Mark now lives in a residential care home.<\/p>\n
It\u2019s a good place, only twelve minutes from our house.<\/p>\n
I visit every morning around nine.<\/p>\n
Most days, I stay until dinner.<\/p>\n
His room overlooks a small pond where ducks drift across the water.<\/p>\n
I specifically requested that room.<\/p>\n
I told the staff my husband has always loved being near a lake.<\/p>\n
He doesn\u2019t remember that anymore.<\/p>\n
He doesn\u2019t remember many things.<\/p>\n
Sophie graduated from nursing school two years ago.<\/p>\n
Mark attended.<\/p>\n
He wore his gray suit.<\/p>\n
He sat in the audience and applauded when she crossed the stage.<\/p>\n
Afterward, he looked at me.<\/p>\n
\u201cWho\u2019s that beautiful young woman?\u201d<\/p>\n
My heart tightened.<\/p>\n
\u201cThat\u2019s Sophie, sweetheart. Our daughter.\u201d<\/p>\n
He stared at her in amazement.<\/p>\n
\u201cWe have a daughter?\u201d<\/p>\n
I nodded.<\/p>\n
He smiled.<\/p>\n
\u201cWell, isn\u2019t she something?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cShe certainly is.\u201d<\/p>\n
He looked at me.<\/p>\n
\u201cDoes she know how proud I am of her?\u201d<\/p>\n
I swallowed my tears.<\/p>\n
\u201cShe knows, Mark. You\u2019ve been telling her since the day she was born.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u2014<\/p>\n
He no longer remembers our address.<\/p>\n
Sometimes he doesn\u2019t recognize Dave, who still visits every Thursday to talk about baseball.<\/p>\n
He no longer remembers the old dock.<\/p>\n
Or Room 12.<\/p>\n
Or the little hardware store where we met.<\/p>\n
And most days, he doesn\u2019t remember my name.<\/p>\n
I\u2019m simply the friendly woman who visits every morning.<\/p>\n
He likes me.<\/p>\n
The nurses say he talks about me when I\u2019m not there.<\/p>\n
Sometimes he smiles when I enter.<\/p>\n
Sometimes he flirts.<\/p>\n
Sometimes he asks whether I\u2019m married.<\/p>\n
I always answer yes.<\/p>\n
\u201cLucky fellow,\u201d he\u2019ll say.<\/p>\n
And I smile.<\/p>\n
\u201cI think so.\u201d<\/p>\n
But there\u2019s one thing he has never stopped doing.<\/p>\n
**He wears his wedding ring.**<\/p>\n
Every single day.<\/p>\n
Sometimes the nurses need to check the skin beneath it.<\/p>\n
But Mark becomes upset if someone tries to remove it.<\/p>\n
He presses his hand against his chest.<\/p>\n
Shakes his head.<\/p>\n
\u201cNo. That\u2019s mine.\u201d<\/p>\n
He cannot explain why.<\/p>\n
He doesn\u2019t know who gave it to him.<\/p>\n
He doesn\u2019t remember standing on that dock and asking me to put it on his finger.<\/p>\n
But somehow, he knows he wants to keep it.<\/p>\n
I often remember what he said in the video.<\/p>\n
*Maybe my mind won\u2019t remember. But perhaps my hand will.*<\/p>\n
Some afternoons, I sit beside him while sunlight pours through his window.<\/p>\n
The ducks move slowly across the pond.<\/p>\n
Mark turns his ring around his finger.<\/p>\n
Sometimes he opens and closes the little hinge.<\/p>\n
Click.<\/p>\n
Click.<\/p>\n
Click.<\/p>\n
He watches it with quiet fascination.<\/p>\n
Last month, something happened that I\u2019ll never forget.<\/p>\n
He carefully removed the ring.<\/p>\n
Held it toward the window.<\/p>\n
And examined the tiny letters engraved inside.<\/p>\n
Then he began reading aloud.<\/p>\n
Slowly.<\/p>\n
One word at a time.<\/p>\n
\u201cEven if I forget\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n
He paused.<\/p>\n
\u201c\u2026she chose me.\u201d<\/p>\n
I held my breath.<\/p>\n
He looked up at me.<\/p>\n
For a moment, his eyes seemed unusually clear.<\/p>\n
Then he asked,<\/p>\n
\u201cWho\u2019s she?\u201d<\/p>\n
I moved my chair closer.<\/p>\n
Took his hand.<\/p>\n
And smiled.<\/p>\n
\u201cWell, sweetheart, it\u2019s a rather long story.\u201d<\/p>\n
He tilted his head.<\/p>\n
\u201cIs it?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cYes.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cWould you like to hear it?\u201d<\/p>\n
He smiled.<\/p>\n
That same smile I\u2019d fallen in love with more than thirty years earlier.<\/p>\n
\u201cI\u2019ve got time.\u201d<\/p>\n
So I began.<\/p>\n
\u2014<\/p>\n
I told him about a young construction worker who walked into a hardware store covered in drywall dust.<\/p>\n
He couldn\u2019t remember the name of the hinge he needed.<\/p>\n
So he drew a terrible picture.<\/p>\n
And the girl behind the counter laughed.<\/p>\n
Mark chuckled.<\/p>\n
\u201cSounds like a terrible artist.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cHe was.\u201d<\/p>\n
I told him how the young man kept returning to the store.<\/p>\n
How he eventually invited the girl to dinner.<\/p>\n
How they ate pizza at a sticky little restaurant.<\/p>\n
Then drove to a beautiful lake surrounded by tall pine trees.<\/p>\n
I told him about the dock.<\/p>\n
The sunset.<\/p>\n
And the foolish young man who looked at a girl he\u2019d known for eight days and told her he intended to marry her.<\/p>\n
Mark smiled.<\/p>\n
\u201cBold fellow.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cVery.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cDid she say yes?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cEventually.\u201d<\/p>\n
I continued.<\/p>\n
I told him about their wedding.<\/p>\n
Their honeymoon.<\/p>\n
Their daughter.<\/p>\n
The difficult years.<\/p>\n
The happy years.<\/p>\n
The accident that damaged the man\u2019s finger.<\/p>\n
The wedding band that no longer fit.<\/p>\n
And the summer when a pale ring mark appeared on his sunburned hand.<\/p>\n
I told him about a wife who thought her husband had fallen in love with someone else.<\/p>\n
And how terribly wrong she had been.<\/p>\n
Mark leaned forward.<\/p>\n
He was listening closely.<\/p>\n
\u201cHad he stopped loving her?\u201d<\/p>\n
The question nearly broke me.<\/p>\n
I shook my head.<\/p>\n
\u201cNo.\u201d<\/p>\n
I squeezed his hand.<\/p>\n
\u201cHe loved her so much that he was afraid of forgetting her.\u201d<\/p>\n
Mark looked down at the ring in his palm.<\/p>\n
I continued.<\/p>\n
\u201cSo he asked her to marry him again. Just to be sure she understood.\u201d<\/p>\n
He sat quietly for a moment.<\/p>\n
Then placed the ring back around his finger.<\/p>\n
He closed the hinge.<\/p>\n
Click.<\/p>\n
He smiled faintly.<\/p>\n
\u201cThat\u2019s a good story.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cIt is.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cDoes it end happily?\u201d<\/p>\n
I looked at him.<\/p>\n
My husband.<\/p>\n
The man who no longer knew my name.<\/p>\n
Who couldn\u2019t remember our daughter.<\/p>\n
Who had forgotten the lake where he once promised to marry me.<\/p>\n
But who still treasured a ring without understanding why.<\/p>\n
\u201cYes,\u201d I whispered. \u201cIt does.\u201d<\/p>\n
He tilted his head.<\/p>\n
\u201cHow can you be sure?\u201d<\/p>\n
I leaned forward and kissed his cheek.<\/p>\n
**\u201cBecause she\u2019s still here.\u201d**<\/p>\n
He smiled.<\/p>\n
Then, slowly, he rested his hand on my knee.<\/p>\n
Exactly the way he used to when we were young and driving with the windows rolled down.<\/p>\n
I placed my hand over his.<\/p>\n
Outside, the ducks drifted across the pond.<\/p>\n
The late afternoon sunshine turned the water silver and gold.<\/p>\n
And for a moment, it looked almost like Loon Lake.<\/p>\n
Mark doesn\u2019t remember.<\/p>\n
But I do.<\/p>\n
I remember the hardware store.<\/p>\n
The terrible hinge drawing.<\/p>\n
The pizza.<\/p>\n
The dock.<\/p>\n
The wedding.<\/p>\n
The ring.<\/p>\n
The diagnosis.<\/p>\n
And the day he chose me all over again.<\/p>\n
I remember everything he is slowly losing.<\/p>\n
And I\u2019ll keep telling him our story for as long as I can.<\/p>\n
Because when we renewed our vows, I promised that if he ever forgot, I would remember for both of us.<\/p>\n
And every morning, when I walk into his room and see that ring on his finger, I know exactly why I made that promise.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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