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The school counselor\u2019s office was a small room with blue chairs and a poster about feelings on the wall.<\/p>\n
Noah sat with his arms crossed, jaw set, cheeks blotchy\u2014the nine-year-old version of his mother in full defensive mode.<\/p>\n
The counselor, a woman in her thirties with gentle eyes, gestured for us to sit.<\/p>\n
\u201cThank you for coming,\u201d she said. \u201cWe thought it was important to address this quickly.\u201d<\/p>\n
Noah glared at the wall.<\/p>\n
Jessica leaned forward. \u201cWhat happened?\u201d<\/p>\n
The counselor glanced at Noah. \u201cDo you want to tell them, or should I?\u201d<\/p>\n
He muttered, \u201cYou tell them.\u201d<\/p>\n
She folded her hands. \u201cThere was an argument at recess. Another student said something about \u2018Noah\u2019s grandma quitting\u2019 and \u2018someone\u2019s mom posting drama online.\u2019\u201d<\/p>\n
Jessica closed her eyes like she\u2019d been slapped.<\/p>\n
Noah\u2019s voice rose. \u201cHe said my family was messed up. He said his mom showed him \u2018the grandma story\u2019 on her phone.\u201d<\/p>\n
I looked at the counselor. \u201cHow did they even\u2014\u201d<\/p>\n
She held up a hand. \u201cIt\u2019s\u2026 everywhere,\u201d she said carefully. \u201cParents talk. Screens travel. We can\u2019t control what adults show their kids, unfortunately.\u201d<\/p>\n
Noah continued, voice shaking. \u201cHe said maybe my grandma left because we\u2019re bad. I told him to shut up. He didn\u2019t. So I pushed him.\u201d<\/p>\n
Jessica covered her mouth.<\/p>\n
My heart broke in two directions at once.<\/p>\n
For Noah.<\/p>\n
For all of us.<\/p>\n
The counselor turned to him. \u201cNoah, we\u2019ve talked about not using our hands when we\u2019re upset, right?\u201d<\/p>\n
He rolled his eyes. \u201cYeah. Use words. But words don\u2019t work when people don\u2019t care.\u201d<\/p>\n
I looked at him.<\/p>\n
Really looked.<\/p>\n
Not just as the boy who hurt my feelings at a birthday party.<\/p>\n
As a child stuck in a story he didn\u2019t choose.<\/p>\n
\u201cNoah,\u201d I said slowly, \u201cdo you think I left because you\u2019re bad?\u201d<\/p>\n
His chin trembled. \u201cI don\u2019t know. You left right after I said something mean. Then Mom said\u2026 then Mom cried. And then\u2014\u201d<\/p>\n
He stopped himself, glancing guiltily at Jessica.<\/p>\n
The counselor stepped in. \u201cNoah, remember what we talked about? This is a safe room. You\u2019re allowed to say how you feel.\u201d<\/p>\n
He took a shuddering breath.<\/p>\n
\u201cMom said you\u2026 humiliated us,\u201d he muttered. \u201cOnline. And that you care more about strangers than about us.\u201d<\/p>\n
Jessica flinched like he\u2019d stabbed\u00a0her<\/em>.<\/p>\n Tears pricked my eyes.<\/p>\n Not because he repeated her words.<\/p>\n Because he believed them.<\/p>\n I leaned forward. \u201cLook at me,\u201d I said gently.<\/p>\n He did.<\/p>\n \u201cNothing you did made me stop loving you,\u201d I said. \u201cNothing. Not one word. I left because the grown-ups in this family forgot how to treat me. Not because you\u2019re bad. Because we\u2019re broken.\u201d<\/p>\n He blinked rapidly.<\/p>\n The counselor nodded. \u201cThat\u2019s an important difference.\u201d<\/p>\n Jessica finally spoke, voice hoarse. \u201cI shouldn\u2019t have said that where you could hear,\u201d she told Noah. \u201cI was angry and embarrassed, but that\u2019s not your fault.\u201d<\/p>\n He shrugged. \u201cEverything is my fault.\u201d<\/p>\n Those words were like a knife.<\/p>\n The counselor stepped in again. \u201cOkay,\u201d she said, tone gentle but firm. \u201cI think it\u2019s clear we need to work on some things as a family. I\u2019d like to suggest regular meetings. All of you. Together.\u201d<\/p>\n Jessica looked like she might protest.<\/p>\n But then she just sagged.<\/p>\n \u201cOkay,\u201d she whispered.<\/p>\n I nodded too.<\/p>\n Not because I thought family therapy would fix everything.<\/p>\n Because I was tired of being the only one doing emotional labor in the dark.<\/p>\n The counselor turned to Noah. \u201cIn the meantime,\u201d she said, \u201cwe need to find a way for you to feel safe at school, regardless of what\u2019s happening at home.\u201d<\/p>\n He whispered, \u201cI don\u2019t want people talking about us anymore.\u201d<\/p>\n I almost laughed at the simplicity.<\/p>\n If only the adult world worked that way.<\/p>\n Later, in the parking lot, Jessica leaned against her car and stared at the gray sky.<\/p>\n \u201cI did this,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n I shook my head. \u201cNo.\u00a0We<\/em>\u00a0did this. Together. Bit by bit. With every time I said yes when I wanted to say no. With every time you clicked \u2018Post\u2019 when you really needed to pick up the phone and cry to someone who knows your middle name.\u201d<\/p>\n She huffed out a humorless laugh. \u201cYou\u2019re getting good at these speeches.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cI\u2019ve had a lot of practice,\u201d I said.<\/p>\n She turned, eyes red but clearer. \u201cThe counselor asked if we had support,\u201d she said. \u201cI realized I listed you\u2026 and no one else.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cThat\u2019s the problem,\u201d I said.<\/p>\n \u201cI know,\u201d she whispered. \u201cWe\u2019re looking into an after-school program. Mark called today. There\u2019s a waitlist, but\u2026 we\u2019re on it. We\u2019re also talking about cutting back some of the boys\u2019 activities. We can\u2019t do four things each. It\u2019s too much.\u201d<\/p>\n Something in my chest loosened.<\/p>\n Not all the way.<\/p>\n A notch.<\/p>\n \u201cThat\u2019s a start,\u201d I said.<\/p>\n Jessica nodded. \u201cAnd we\u2026 we talked about paying you. Not as a bribe. As\u2026 acknowledgment. If you decide to help again. But we\u2019ll also budget for a sitter. A real one. With a backup.\u201d<\/p>\n I put a hand on the car door to steady myself.<\/p>\n Not because of the money.<\/p>\n Because of the word\u00a0decide<\/em>.<\/p>\n \u201cAnd if I say no?\u201d I asked quietly.<\/p>\n Jessica swallowed. \u201cThen we figure it out without you. For real this time.\u201d<\/p>\n It was the scariest and most loving thing she\u2019d ever said.<\/p>\n You\u2019d think that would be the end of the drama.<\/p>\n You\u2019d be wrong.<\/p>\n Because once the internet gets its teeth into a story, it doesn\u2019t let go that easily.<\/p>\n Two days later, Diane called me, breathless.<\/p>\n \u201cTurn on your computer,\u201d she said. \u201cOr your tablet. Or whatever you use. You need to see this.\u201d<\/p>\n I don\u2019t have a tablet.<\/p>\n I have an old laptop that wheezes when it boots up.<\/p>\n I opened it and clicked the link she sent.<\/p>\n It was an article on a popular lifestyle site with a cozy name\u2014something like \u201cModern Hearth,\u201d all soft colors and curated imperfection.<\/p>\n The headline made my stomach flip:<\/p>\n \u201cWhen Grandma Quits: The Hidden Cost of America\u2019s \u2018Free\u2019 Childcare.\u201d<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n There, in black and white, were pieces of my anonymous letter.<\/p>\n Paraphrased. Quoted.<\/p>\n Turned into a think-piece about generational expectations, unpaid labor, and the modern grind.<\/p>\n The writer had requested permission through the platform\u2019s messaging system. I hadn\u2019t seen it yet.<\/p>\n It didn\u2019t matter.<\/p>\n Screenshots move faster than ethics.<\/p>\n They\u2019d anonymized us.<\/p>\n No names.<\/p>\n No locations.<\/p>\n But the story was ours.<\/p>\n The comments were\u2026 not gentle.<\/p>\n \u201cPeople are so ungrateful.\u201d I closed the laptop.<\/p>\n My hands were cold.<\/p>\n The phone rang again.<\/p>\n This time, it was Mark.<\/p>\n \u201cEleanor,\u201d he said, voice tight, \u201cI assume you\u2019ve seen the article.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cYes,\u201d I said.<\/p>\n He let out a breath. \u201cMy colleagues sent it in the group chat as a \u2018discussion piece.\u2019 They don\u2019t know it\u2019s us. Yet. But they will if it keeps spreading.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cMark,\u201d I said, \u201cI didn\u2019t send it to that site.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cI know you didn\u2019t,\u201d he said quickly. \u201cI\u2019m not blaming you. I just\u2026 didn\u2019t realize how big this would get.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cNone of us did,\u201d I said.<\/p>\n He was quiet for a moment.<\/p>\n Then he added, \u201cMy mother called.\u201d<\/p>\n Of course she did.<\/p>\n \u201cWhat did she say?\u201d I asked, bracing myself.<\/p>\n \u201cShe thinks the article makes her look bad,\u201d Mark said. \u201cShe said she\u2019s being painted as the \u2018fun but irresponsible\u2019 grandmother.\u201d<\/p>\n I almost laughed. \u201cIf the shoe fits\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n He sighed. \u201cShe\u2019s furious. She says if we\u2019re going to \u2018trash her\u2019 on the internet, she won\u2019t come up for holidays anymore.\u201d<\/p>\n I rubbed my forehead. \u201cMark, the article didn\u2019t mention her. I didn\u2019t mention her. If she sees herself in it, that\u2019s between her and her conscience.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cI told her that,\u201d he said. \u201cIt didn\u2019t go over well.\u201d<\/p>\n I bet it didn\u2019t.<\/p>\n He cleared his throat. \u201cShe also offered to take the boys for a week. To \u2018show them what a real vacation looks like.\u2019\u201d<\/p>\n Something in my gut tightened.<\/p>\n \u201cA week alone with Sharon and unlimited screens?\u201d I asked. \u201cIs that really what you want right now?\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cI don\u2019t know what I want,\u201d he admitted. \u201cI just know I\u2019m tired. Jess is tired. The boys are confused. My inbox is full. I feel like my entire life is one big juggling act and someone just started throwing knives at me.\u201d<\/p>\n I closed my eyes.<\/p>\n \u201cI hear you,\u201d I said. \u201cBut sending them to Florida as a pressure valve isn\u2019t going to fix the root problem.\u201d<\/p>\n He was silent.<\/p>\n Then he said something that surprised me.<\/p>\n \u201cI think I\u2019d like to talk. All three of us. Me, you, and Jess. Without the kids.\u201d<\/p>\n I blinked. \u201cAbout what?\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cAbout a plan,\u201d he said. \u201cOne that doesn\u2019t depend on you always saying yes. One that doesn\u2019t depend on online strangers to tell us who we are.\u201d<\/p>\n We met that Saturday at a coffee shop halfway between our houses.<\/p>\n Neutral ground.<\/p>\n No toys on the floor.<\/p>\n No dishes in the sink.<\/p>\n Just three adults and three mugs and a table big enough for the distance between us.<\/p>\n Mark went first.<\/p>\n He\u2019d brought a notebook.<\/p>\n He\u2019s that kind of man.<\/p>\n Practical. List-making. Strategy-driven.<\/p>\n \u201cWe did some math,\u201d he said. \u201cIf we had to pay someone to do everything you\u2019ve been doing, it would be more than our mortgage. We\u2019ve been living off your unpaid work and telling ourselves it\u2019s \u2018just what families do.\u2019\u201d<\/p>\n Jessica stared at the table.<\/p>\n Mark continued. \u201cWe can\u2019t afford full-time help. Not at market rates. But we also can\u2019t afford to keep using you for free. Morally or financially. It\u2019s not sustainable.\u201d<\/p>\n I sipped my coffee.<\/p>\n He flipped the page.<\/p>\n \u201cSo here\u2019s what we\u2019re thinking,\u201d he said. \u201cFirst: we scale back the boys\u2019 activities. Two each, max. That\u2019s non-negotiable. Second: we enroll them in the after-school program as soon as there\u2019s a spot. Third: we hire a sitter for two afternoons a week, even if it means cutting back in other areas.\u201d<\/p>\n He hesitated.<\/p>\n \u201cFourth,\u201d he said, \u201cwe\u2019d like to ask if you\u2019d be willing to be with them\u2026 two mornings a week. Just two. We\u2019d pay you. Not what you\u2019re worth. That would be impossible. But something. And we\u2019d put it in writing\u2014not as a contract to trap you, but as a promise not to expand it without discussion.\u201d<\/p>\n Jessica finally looked up.<\/p>\n Her eyes were brave and scared at the same time.<\/p>\n \u201cAnd if you say no,\u201d she said, \u201cwe don\u2019t sulk. We don\u2019t guilt you. We don\u2019t smear you online. We don\u2019t\u2026 collapse. We figure it out.\u201d<\/p>\n You\u2019d think my immediate response would be yes.<\/p>\n I love those boys.<\/p>\n I miss them when they\u2019re not underfoot.<\/p>\n But I didn\u2019t rush.<\/p>\n I let the silence stretch.<\/p>\n Because this was the moment that would decide whether I returned as a person or as a bandage.<\/p>\n \u201cI need to think about it,\u201d I said.<\/p>\n Jessica nodded quickly. \u201cOf course. Take your time.\u201d<\/p>\n Mark looked relieved I hadn\u2019t stormed out.<\/p>\n We talked about smaller things then.<\/p>\n School.<\/p>\n The counselor.<\/p>\n Liam\u2019s newfound love for science experiments.<\/p>\n Noah\u2019s tentative interest in writing\u2014a story about a superhero who loses his powers and has to figure out if anyone loves him without them.<\/p>\n That one stung.<\/p>\n In the good way.<\/p>\n When we left, Jessica hugged me in the parking lot.<\/p>\n It wasn\u2019t automatic.<\/p>\n It was intentional.<\/p>\n \u201cI love you,\u201d she said into my shoulder. \u201cEven when I\u2019m defensive and stupid. Even when I\u2019m scared.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cI love you too,\u201d I whispered. \u201cEven when I\u2019m rigid and dramatic. Even when I\u2019m tired.\u201d<\/p>\n We stood there for a second longer than usual.<\/p>\n Then we let go.<\/p>\n You\u2019d think this is where the episode ends.<\/p>\n It isn\u2019t.<\/p>\n Because life doesn\u2019t tie itself up neatly in three parts.<\/p>\n A week later, I woke up with chest pain.<\/p>\n Not the sharp, movie kind.<\/p>\n A heavy pressure, like someone had set a book on my sternum and refused to move it.<\/p>\n My nurse brain woke up before the rest of me.<\/p>\n Is it radiating? Arm? Jaw? Shortness of breath? Nausea?<\/em><\/p>\n I sat up.<\/p>\n Took a slow breath.<\/p>\n The pain didn\u2019t get worse.<\/p>\n But it didn\u2019t vanish.<\/p>\n A younger version of me might have ignored it.<\/p>\n The new version of me called my doctor.<\/p>\n He insisted I come in.<\/p>\n The electrocardiogram was normal.<\/p>\n The blood tests were fine.<\/p>\n He leaned back in his chair, peering at me over his glasses.<\/p>\n \u201cEleanor,\u201d he said gently, \u201cwhen\u2019s the last time you had a week with no major emotional event?\u201d<\/p>\n I almost laughed.<\/p>\n \u201cDo they make those anymore?\u201d I asked.<\/p>\n He smiled sadly. \u201cYour heart is okay. But your nervous system is on high alert. You\u2019re in chronic stress mode.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cI feel\u2026 tired,\u201d I admitted.<\/p>\n \u201cThat\u2019s because you\u2019ve been running a marathon in place,\u201d he said. \u201cYour body finally sat down.\u201d<\/p>\n He gave me a prescription for something mild to help me sleep, recommended counseling, and said the words I\u2019ve said to patients a thousand times but never really applied to myself:<\/p>\n \u201cYou have to treat rest like medicine, not like a reward.\u201d<\/p>\n I drove home slower than usual.<\/p>\n My phone was full of messages again by the time I pulled into the driveway.<\/p>\n This time, I turned it off.<\/p>\n I sat in my parked car and looked at my tiny front porch, at the stubborn ivy creeping up the railings, at the worn welcome mat.<\/p>\n I thought about my life as it had been, as it was, and as it might be.<\/p>\n Then I remembered something Diane mentioned in passing last week.<\/p>\n A co-housing community for older adults on the other side of town. Not a facility. Not a \u201chome.\u201d A cluster of small apartments around shared spaces. They had a shuttle to the grocery store. A garden. A book club. People who cooked for each other sometimes.<\/p>\n \u201cA village for the village,\u201d she\u2019d joked.<\/p>\n At the time, I\u2019d laughed it off.<\/p>\n Now, my chest still faintly aching, I didn\u2019t laugh.<\/p>\n I went inside, turned on my computer, and looked it up.<\/p>\n The photos made me suspicious at first.<\/p>\n Smiling gray-haired people tending flowers.<\/p>\n Tables full of board games.<\/p>\n Diverse faces laughing over soup.<\/p>\n It looked like a brochure for happiness.<\/p>\n And I don\u2019t trust brochures anymore.<\/p>\n But then I saw a line in the description that made me pause.<\/p>\n \u201cDesigned for older adults who have spent their lives caring for others and are ready to be cared for too.\u201d<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n Ready to be cared for.<\/p>\n The idea felt foreign.<\/p>\n I clicked on the \u201cSchedule a Visit\u201d button before I could talk myself out of it.<\/p>\n They had an open house on Saturday.<\/p>\n Two hours.<\/p>\n No commitments.<\/p>\n I signed up.<\/p>\n Then I sat back in my chair and stared at the confirmation email.<\/p>\n Something between guilt and excitement fluttered in my stomach.<\/p>\n Later that night, when Jessica called to check on my test results, I told her.<\/p>\n \u201cYou\u2019re\u2026 going to look at a community?\u201d she asked carefully.<\/p>\n \u201cYes,\u201d I said. \u201cJust to see. Just to know what\u2019s possible.\u201d<\/p>\n Silence.<\/p>\n Then: \u201cAre you moving out of town?\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cJessica,\u201d I said gently, \u201cI haven\u2019t even stepped inside yet. I\u2019m just\u2026 exploring. Don\u2019t turn it into a catastrophe before I\u2019ve even parked the car.\u201d<\/p>\n She exhaled. \u201cI\u2019m trying not to make this about me,\u201d she said. \u201cI really am. But the thought of you\u2026 living somewhere built for\u00a0you<\/em>\u00a0and not for us\u2026 it makes me\u2026 sad. And also\u2026 weirdly\u2026 happy?\u201d<\/p>\n There it was again.<\/p>\n Two truths, coexisting.<\/p>\n \u201cThat\u2019s allowed,\u201d I said. \u201cTo be sad and happy at the same time.\u201d<\/p>\n She was quiet for a long moment.<\/p>\n Then she said something I didn\u2019t expect.<\/p>\n \u201cIf you move there,\u201d she asked, \u201cwould you still\u2026 see the boys?\u201d<\/p>\n I smiled, even though she couldn\u2019t see it.<\/p>\n \u201cOf course,\u201d I said. \u201cI might even have them over for a Saturday in the community garden. Let them see a version of getting older that isn\u2019t just\u2026 collapsing on someone else\u2019s couch.\u201d<\/p>\n She let out a breath that sounded like a laugh and a sob tangled together.<\/p>\n \u201cThat would be good for them,\u201d she said. \u201cAnd for me. To see you\u2026 have a life.\u201d<\/p>\n We talked a little more.<\/p>\n About the boys\u2019 week.<\/p>\n About how the after-school program orientation went.<\/p>\n About how Noah had written a short story about a superhero whose greatest power was saying no.<\/p>\n \u201cYou know he\u2019s talking about you, right?\u201d she said.<\/p>\n \u201cMaybe he\u2019s talking about himself,\u201d I replied.<\/p>\n Maybe we all were.<\/p>\n Saturday came faster than I expected.<\/p>\n I packed a small bag, even though I wasn\u2019t staying the night.<\/p>\n Just a water bottle, a notebook, a pen.<\/p>\n Old habits.<\/p>\n You never know when you\u2019ll need to write something down.<\/p>\n As I locked my front door, I caught my reflection in the glass.<\/p>\n Sixty-four.<\/p>\n Lines on my forehead.<\/p>\n Softness where there used to be angles.<\/p>\n Eyes that had seen too much and not nearly enough.<\/p>\n For a second, I saw myself as the internet saw me.<\/p>\n As \u201cGrandma Who Quit.\u201d<\/p>\n Then I shook my head.<\/p>\n \u201cNo,\u201d I told the woman in the glass. \u201cYou\u2019re Grandma Who Started Over.\u201d<\/p>\n I walked down the steps slowly, feeling the cool air on my face.<\/p>\n My phone buzzed in my pocket.<\/p>\n A message from Noah.<\/p>\n Good luck today, Grandma. Tell me if they have a game room. Maybe I can visit and beat you at something.<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n Another from Liam.<\/p>\n Bring me a picture of the garden if they have one. I want to see what your new plants will look like.<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n My throat tightened.<\/p>\n Not with grief this time.<\/p>\n With possibility.<\/p>\n I got in my car, put the address into the old GPS, and pulled out of the driveway.<\/p>\n As the familiar streets gave way to new ones, as my house grew smaller in the rearview mirror, I realized something simple and terrifying and beautiful.<\/p>\n For the first time in a long time, I wasn\u2019t just driving toward someone else\u2019s to-do list.<\/p>\n I was driving toward a life that might, if I was brave enough, finally be mine.<\/p>\n By the time I pulled into the parking lot of the co-housing community, it hit me that this wasn\u2019t really a tour\u2014it was a question. The place didn\u2019t look like a \u201cfacility.\u201d<\/p>\n No big sterile sign. No identical windows.<\/p>\n Just a cluster of small buildings wrapped around a shared courtyard, with mismatched chairs on porches and wind chimes ringing out of tune.<\/p>\n There were pots of herbs by one door, a tricycle abandoned near another, as if a grandchild had been visiting and left their chaos behind.<\/p>\n A small wooden sign by the path read: A woman with silver curls and bright purple glasses waved from the glass doors.<\/p>\n \u201cEleanor?\u201d she called. \u201cI\u2019m Carla. Come on in.\u201d<\/p>\n Inside, it smelled like coffee and laundry detergent and something baking\u2014banana bread, maybe. A few people sat in the common room, reading or talking. A TV in the corner played the news with the sound off.<\/p>\n It didn\u2019t feel like an institution.<\/p>\n It felt like walking into the living room of a very big, slightly chaotic family.<\/p>\n Carla handed me a name tag. \u201cWe\u2019re doing a little welcome circle,\u201d she said. \u201cNo pressure to share. But you\u2019re welcome to.\u201d<\/p>\n Of course there was a circle.<\/p>\n Once a nurse, always suspicious of circles.<\/p>\n They often mean feelings.<\/p>\n The school counselor\u2019s office was a small room with blue chairs and a poster about feelings on the wall. 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\n\u201cMust be nice to have a grandma at all.\u201d
\n\u201cThis is what happens when we worship \u2018independence\u2019 and forget community.\u201d
\n\u201cOr when we worship hustle and forget humanity.\u201d<\/p>\n
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\nPart 4 \u2014 The Village I Choose<\/h3>\n
\nWas I going to keep living as the woman who exists for everyone else, or was I finally going to risk becoming the person who exists for herself?<\/p>\n
\nMaple Court Co-Living \u2014 Where Care Is Shared.<\/strong><\/p>\nCLICK HERE TO CONTINUE READING THE NEXT PART \ud83d\udc49: PART 4-A GRANDMOTHER\u2019S REBELLION AGAINST FAMILY FREE LABOR: \u201cWHEN THE VILLAGE QUITS\u201d<\/a><\/h2>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"